We are a MWC in our 40s. In 1999 she experienced her first black lover. He was great. It was great and she sees him to this day. Her only complaint is that she only gets to see him every two to three weeks. That's not enough to take care of her needs. She is not interested in a parade of guys, just one who can fill and fulfill. Both of us are pretty submissive and want to meet someone who can take control yet be sensitive to our marriage. Would you be interested in frequent sex with the wife while flaunting it in hubby's face? Does regular sex with a cute, petite woman with curves in all the right places and who never says "no" interest you? We sort of envision a relationship where her lover can be introduced as a friend of mine to family and friends. They just wouldn't know the full extent of the relationship. Weekends, trips and overnighters are particularly exciting to us. It's always great to visit with people with similar interests. If you're a picture collector, try someone else.