Married for 26 years and became divorced after the kids moved away. It wasn't a bad split but still a shock and took some major adjusting for me. It took me a few years to build the courage to date, so much has changed over the 2 years. I was loyal in my marriage (mostly) even though it was mostly sexless for the last years of it.

I met someone about a year (by accident) that helped me somewhat break out of my shell, who was somewhat of a FWB for almost a year. It's helped me come out of my she