Mid-Summer 2006

Finally a fortunate combination of events combine with careful planning eventually led to us being alone for almost 6 days during the summer. For weeks I readied for the week by getting all sorts of potential opportunities laid out. I kept everything extremely flexible so as to adapt to whatever mood or opportunity there was yet structured just enough to make the most effective use of this invaluable time. Linda and I also talked about many things. We talked about the possibility of actually having couples over to the house sometime sin the distant future. I was surprised she would be willing to do that but was certainly happy about it. We talked too about meeting single men or single women, and going to the swing club. And during one intense about of fucking I told her also about how hot it made me to think of one day actually sharing her with other men. It got her wet.

Her First Webcam Show

Well, finally we got our webcam and after a lot of tech issues were online. She agreed with a little coaxing to show her face but for some reason did not want to use the audio microphone this time and I had to acquiesce to her request. I tried to get some black guys to chat with my wife but either they did not interest her (showing only their flabby bellies) or they could not manage to view her cam at their end for some technical reason. So, after about an hour of fidgeting, there Linda was sitting in front of the camera in full view, letting her black silk robe flow open so her tasty nude body was visible complete with its delicious porcelain glowing in the soft light. She started to slowly play with herself. About 150 people were viewing her now through Adult Friend Finder. Meanwhile, I was busy off cam right next to her trying desperately to find some black guy with a cam to chat with her. All sorts of guys kept instant messaging her, but nearly all were white or did not have cameras. They were pretty lame. After awhile she was getting really horny and urging me to let her start really getting off. She brought out her big black vibrating dildo and started to softly play with it. I finally got a cam of some guy stroking off his 8 inch dick for her to watch and was messaging a little back and forth with him for her. I was telling her what he was saying, that he could see her and wanted to fuck her pink hole. I also kept updating her on how many viewers she had and a few complimentary pings she was receiving.

Linda played with her vibe and massaged her tits, cupping them and occasionally pulling her nipples, rubbing her creamy thighs, and stroking herself. She was generally just relaxing and staring at the screen, watching herself, and whomever else I managed to pull up briefly. I asked her if she liked being watch and how she felt knowing so many people were seeing her and that all these black guys were out there stroking off to her, wanting her. She said yes and told me it made her feel sexy. I could tell she was really being turned on and I was excited that she was so easily getting into things. I was a bit surprised, actually, given her past shyness and anxiety. She was going at it for quite awhile and I finally said, "Wow, sweety, you must really be enjoying yourself to take this much time to pleasure yourself?" But amusingly, she told me that actually she was having trouble climaxing because she had "lost it" several times already and had made herself stop because of how things were going on screen.

At this same time I also logged us on to the Dark Cavern Forum, which I really have never bothered with before, and tried to access the Chat room feature for the first time. We immediately got three instant message windows but for some reason we were unable to respond to any. The windows froze. Perhaps the system was overwhelmed with all the bandwidth we were using to view cams, broadcast our own, and have all these other chat screens open. Or it may again have been another annoying compatibility issue with our system. It was too bad, but I couldn't waste time with it as she was starting to really work her toy on her wet pussy. Finally, a black guy with a cam who could also see her messaged her.

I typed a few words to him, but he was distracted and proved another bore, not to mention wasn't even nude. Linda just kept on relaxing, playing with her dildo and watching herself on the screen. I had a few other windows up of women and kept searching for someone who she could watch as he watched her in return, but no one came on by time she climaxed on camera --with like 120 viewers. So, I got up a minute later and fucked her right there in the chair for a bit, then had her bend over it for a few more minutes of pumping. Her pussy felt especially hot. We had about 180 people watching by then and dozens of personal messages piling up. The position was pretty awkward for us both though and so we ran upstairs to finish. I laid her down and entered her hot wetness again. We talked about how wet she was and how it excited her to be watched like that. She told me it made her "feel real sexy" to have so many men as well as couples and women see her cum with her "big black toy" then get fucked, and that she liked knowing all these black guys were out there "stroking off to her creamy skin and pink holes" as she put it. That kind of talk made me explode quite nicely inside her of course.

More Dildo & Some Great Ruff Fucking

One rare and sunny afternoon alone, Linda got dressed up in some tight vinyl fetish clothing, one of her sexiest outfits in my opinion, and we set up the video camera in a room. We filmed the action from behind for a change and she was able later to get a nice perspective of my ass pumping on top of her. Right afterwards we had her play with some of her chocolate dildoes while I took pics and then filmed her cumming with one. She had a long vocal orgasm that was sexy to hear and see. I also got a short clip of her wearing a mask while playing so that she would be comfortable with me putting it online for others to see her. We rested awhile then played some more. For another switch, Linda gave me a clue she wanted to be "taken" so right away I filmed me simply grabbing and roughly throwing her on the bed. I manhandled her while she protested. At first I held her hands together and roughly slurped on her tits then slapped them a few times. I groped her harshly for awhile and verbally abused her before forcibly flipping her over and giving her a few ass slaps. Then I just jammed my stiffness into her. She clutched the bed as I pounded her lying there with her ass bent over the edge. All the while I was telling her how I was going to take her tight little fuck holes hard like the cunt bitch she was. She moaned and cried and screamed in protest. It was pretty intense and very hot. She cried out "No,! no!" but I told her to "shut up and take it, bitch!" I held her by the hair and then forced her arms tight together behind her back. Playing like that got us both even more excited I could tell, as she was soaking and I was throbbing. I happily pounded and drilled into her as hard as I possibly could, roughly slamming her sass checks with my hips. As I ordered her to take my meat she continued shaking her head side to side and scream "No, no, no!" It went on like this for about 5 minutes, then I fucked her in the ass with virtually no notice. I said you're going to take it up the ass bitch! You want hat? And then I just lubed right up and shoved it in as she wailed and flailed, screaming "Nooooooo!." I held Linda by the arms and pounded her like the dirty slut she is. She cried out, "that's too much, too much in my little hole!" But very quickly she was crying "Yessss" instead of "Noooo." It was good and nasty. Definitely the hardest anal pounding she had yet had. But, as my wife can only take anal sex for a few minutes before she starts to feel too uncomfortable, I had to pull out before I was finished. So, I spanked her ass some again then went real fast and cleaned up before returning to just climb on top of her and quickly fill her with my load.

Afterward she told me it was all very hot for her too. She sometimes really likes being taken roughly and used hard. I watched the clip about half a dozen times over the next few weeks and jerked off to it each time. We even watched it together once while she sat next to me and stroked me off herself for a change. Late once night after I had watched it once more I just had to run and slip into bed to quickly fuck my wife as she lay there half asleep. All the while I was thinking about the scene. I even found the still shots I cut from the clip were pretty hot to view. I later asked Linda if she wanted to do something like that again but with me wearing a mask and a brown condom and with her protesting and fighting more. She answered demurely that it "could be fun." Once more, I have to express: it sure makes me quite glad to consider how deliciously nasty yet naturally perverted it is to have a "fetish" for ones own wife.

Play Week Plans At Long Last

After years of trying, we finally managed to arrange to have an entire week alone away from family. We would have six nights to ourselves and a four day weekend. We schedule this "play week" two months ahead of time for mid-July. Right away I began to try not to get overly excited or anticipate too much. I determined we would just try to enjoy ourselves no matter what. At the very least we would have some intimate solitude, probably get a little kinky, maybe webcam, perhaps try to further along our "watersports" experiences, and of course pay some visit to one of several area swing clubs.

But, I also realized that this was a natural opportunity to fulfill my ultimate goal of seeing my wife with others… Doing that I know requires first attracting and then screening potential candidates by making it better known that my wife would be available. The way I saw it, during this time we could certainly meet a some people somewhere discrete in public during a weeknight and from there Linda would then decide if she wanted for us all to get together later. At this point however, I can't really say whether if after we met someone suitable she would actually consider having them over to our house, or would accept getting a hotel, or going to their place instead. Either way, we first had to advertise what we wanted.

Her First Dark Cavern Ad

One afternoon I casually told Linda that I would be posting an ad on the DC site. I knew she knew this was a first for her; that it would be specifically advertising her interest in meeting a black man for real sex. I knew she also realized that it tied into our upcoming "play week." So, in preparation for our special week alone here is what I excitedly sent in to Coco for posting in the ads section:

Slinkywife in central GA

This is our first official ad here on DC seeking playmates following two years of teasing pics and fantasies (see her Chronicle online here). After several years of postponement and shyness she is finally ready to take the plunge and make it real. We are not "swingers" and are very selective and extremely new to this, however.

Her whole life has only had ONE cock in her very tight holes. Now we are ready to have her used good by big black dick only. She is a mature 44-year-old married white slut horny for big black meat: 5'7", 140 pounds, hazel eyes, big soft tits, with creamy white skin. She's a natural redhead although sometimes likes being a brunette.

She is particular and knows what she would like: a fit dark hung male in his 20s or 30 (for men in their 40s it would depend on chemistry). Also, an interracial couple or black couple with bi female would be even more preferred, as she is more than ready for that as well (!)

She has tight holes, and though not very oral, really loves it hard and fast and deep. Treat her like a lady when you meet and later you can use her as your bitch to your content. Treat her like the dirty slut she is then and she will eagerly act the whore for you. You can use either hole but condoms are MANDATORY.

She is more a "bottom" than a "submissive", likes being shown off, exposed and "taken." Lick or finger her clit until she comes and she will literally beg for you to fuck her. Her turn-ons are talking dirty, big cocks, dark skin, bondage, lesbians, and being ridden hard. Her turn-offs are flabby buts, fat bellies, hairy backs, and heavy tattoos.

Hubby is straight and Dominant and will always attend to film (for private use) and do her after you. She will not play alone. We will not arrange to play with anyone until we have received FACE and BODY pics, talked with you by phone, and then met in public first. We will not give out our address, phone, or location, so please don't ask in your email.

Also, if you have a Mac webcam she would love to video chat with you (AIM: "Slinkywife"). That would be the best way to see she is for real, entice her, and know we are serious. Otherwise you can try to chat with us via Slinkywife at Yahoo.

We are serious but in no rush and will not hook up immediately. Our schedule is very limited so whatever we commit to can be assured that it will be followed through on our end. If you are rude or the impatient pressuring type you won't get far. But if we meet and she likes you, then it's a sure thing. The potential is limitless after that, as hubby wants to slut her out to the max as a proper black cock slut…and perhaps your white bondage cunt. Hubby will certainly make every effort to make sure it happens.

Will you get to be her very first? Or one of many more to cum?

Slinkywife@comcast.net

p.s. Do NOT email us stunted comments filled with poor English that makes no sense. Do not just send us a cock photo. We email with people not penises. Please do not ask us to "hook up" immediately as we will obviously are screening potential playmates. Do not contact us for any reason if you are a single WHITE male ---or for that matter an Asian or Hispanic or Arab or mulatto or Martian or anything else other than a hung BLACK male.

I though that all pretty much covered everything. I also sent in three new discreet but very sexy and revealing photos of Linda to go with it. When I told her days later that it was done and that I would screen any responses, I was happy to note she made no particular remark or expressed any undue concern to the news. She just nodded and smiled.

Later, I started to think about Linda's her lack of any comment as well as about my feelings toward our upcoming week of potential erotic adventure. I realized it was quite an achievement for her to accept it so readily and it generally gave me good feeling (though I won't say high hope) for what we might end up doing on our upcoming play week.

Strange enough, my feelings toward our upcoming time of potential erotic adventure have been unusually blurry for me. I have been finding it difficult to think about exactly what we might do during that time because at once the possibilities are so enormous, and yet, I have been disappointed before by our bad timing, bad luck, and missed opportunities. Maybe I am reluctant to think too much about it at this point lest I be disappointed? So, even as I try to formulate a plan of action that ensures we have some fun I find myself having trouble determining what course our week alone should take. I suppose I should just consider any lack structure something positive that will allow us to be spontaneous and flexible. Maybe I will feel more confident in this once I sit down with Linda and let her review the websites for the party clubs and see how she reacts in considering some of the people that responded to her ad. That will tell me a lot I, suppose. All I know is what I want to see happen: my wife gets fucked by someone. (If I end up having gotten some new pussy too, all the better, but its less important.)

Contemplating Scenarios

As I wrote the DC ad and tried to explain about my wife being a "bottom" as well as shy and cautious, I started to ponder something. I began to consider that an element at work with Linda's sexuality all this time is that she really does seem to need a certain "coercion" to allow herself to indulge her darker passions. I think as part of her need or her nature she requires a degree of firmness and leading on my half for her to "permit" herself to do something like this for real when the time comes.

Surprisingly, as expressive as I have been in this journal I can't explain this insight further, as I find myself lacking the capacity to more fully describe it as I would normally like. I can only write that I can imagine a situation where, either alone at our home with others or out at a club, I would made some overt move to "break the ice" for her. I can imagine a situation where I would intervene to get things started such as opening or removing her clothes or pushing her close up against some waiting guy and telling him to feel her up, or some combination of these. I can foresee a scene some place where I would be the one to initiate things so that by taking "control" of Linda she would "relinquish" control and feel the excitement of being "used" or "loaned out" and thereby yield to the erotic energy of moment. The other person would also immediately know that they were free to act and understand Linda was entirely compliant. I feel intuitively this is what she needs and what will work with her, what would "release" her. If I can just get us someplace with a suitable guy or woman, or couple, and then see Linda obviously comfortable with them, I know it will all happen.

It excites me to envision it. I can just see her wearing some sexy outfit standing or sitting next to a guy, chatting demurely with him, making small talk, but giving off every sign to my eyes that she is comfortable with him and approachable. But he is being patient, polite, and cool. After awhile I would come up to him and just flat out say something like, "You know, my wife here sure is a slut, and I have to tell you she really gets wet thinking about a black guy's dick inside her." Such talk would at once make Linda totally aroused but also embarrassed. Yet, I am confidant she would defer completely to my taking the initiative like this. I would then move to open up her shirt or jacket to show off her bare tits, asking the man, "So ,do these look like fine whore tits to you?" I would wait to let the moment have its effect before asking him, "How do they feel to you?" Maybe I might play it out a bit more or just let it go from there, because I know deep down that the rest would take care of itself as soon as he put his black hands on her creamy pale skin. ...If I can just get us to such a situation.

I'd never try to make Linda do anything she wouldn't want to, and she knows this. She has more than once said about all this, "Don't try to make me do something I don't want to" which seems to be her big concern. I have always told her never even consider ever attempting to make her do anything she wasn't comfortable with. Her being willing to have fun is the whole point. Finding out just what she is willing to do is the sometimes frustrating to be sure, but its also part of the very fun of the adventure.

More Ads for Her

The same day I sent in the DC ad I also went ahead and set us up an account on the huge Adult Friend Finder site, again saying pretty much the same thing in a profile for her. Within a few days I had filtered out dozens of replies to about 10 inquiries from potential black men. It would be a week at least I knew before I could sit Linda down to review them (and I suspect she will veto 95% of them). But, a few I went ahead and answered ahead of time, asking they send or face or nude shot as it seemed few had sent both kinds of photos as requested. You have to be sure the face matches the penis after all.

I also sent out about a half-dozen inquiries to suitable couples and another half-dozen to bi-females but none replied back so far. We did have one lesbian who seemed a good match that was interested but then unfortunately a few days later responded again that she had already met someone else now. Her email really got me hot and bothered thinking about how much I want to see my wife with another woman. …Desperately so.

Anyway, from some emails we got a few invites to various Yahoo groups for local swingers and interracial play parties, so I signed us up for them and made an introduction post saying essentially the same as the DC. We immediately got some responses but regrettably, once more, they were nearly all from much older men, white guys, or fat people. Also, for some reason, despite how specific I was in our profile, we still got strangers inviting us immediately to "hook up" and "party" with them at some hotel. By what reasoning would they imagine a new and cautious couple like us being selective would up and decide to just go meet complete strangers for sex? And for them to be flabby blubbery types on top of it was just insulting. Then half the email replies were little more than a "Yo, drop me a line if you want to hook up, I'll promise to show you a good time" sort of thing with no photo and not even a simple description of who they are, their age, build, appearance, etc. Pathetic.

I came across an attractive couple in our town who seem to be not unlike us. They hold occasional play parties, so that might have some potential as they have their e-group. We also were invited by the moderator of another e-group of interracial swingers and I will monitor that for possibilities. I really can't predict what potential they hold until Linda gets to take a look.

I started to think about her reaction to my telling her about posting the DC ad, about my signing up for the local club e-groups, and about her lack of comment. I ended up telling my wife, "Look honey, we need to keep in mind that we are just average folk, and we know that on the one hand some of these swingers out there are totally hot and virtually porn stars. While on the other hand, a lot of them are the hideous trailer trash mutant fatties we've tried to avoid. The challenge in meeting people is that we are somewhere in the middle." I then added that it wouldn't be hard to find a guy to get together with for her who was, in effect, more attractive as a person than either of us because men have broader standards, and besides black guys seem willing to enjoy a broader range when it comes to white women. But, I then told her, for us meeting a suitable bisexual woman, or couple with same, was going to be harder because she has such high standards that finding someone "in our own league" is going to be a challenge. At least, that's how I see it given all our efforts so far. In other words, I think it will be far easily to get her some big black dick than some sweet white pussy.

Spelling Things Out

I was still a little unsure about how Linda felt about the possibility of us actually getting together with just a single guy during our special upcoming week alone. I simply needed to be sure she understood that it was a distinct possibility because most all of the responses to her ads were naturally from single black guys. So, while she was on the way home from work I called her and told her we needed to talk some and asked her if she understood this. She told me she actually didn't realize that and she hadn't really considered it because she thought I meant we would meet a couple or a single woman. I quickly pointed out to her that it was going to be far more likely that any potential candidates were going to be men. She said that that made sense and to my relief added that she didn't really have a problem with it. I also told her that although getting together with a male/female couple would definitely be preferable, let alone a single bi-woman, finding one suitable was going to be much less likely. I added that it seemed to me that finding a couple that appealed to us both was going to be difficult because I'd like them to be interracial (black man and white woman), or else both be black, since I had no real interest at present playing with another couple like us. (I just had no interest at all in seeing Linda be with white guy ---although I suppose she does).

Linda did say that either way didn't really matter because all that she was concerned about was whether or not she found the person appealing, and would only consider someone provided that she found them interesting. To my dismay I had to remind her again that this was entirely understood and completely acceptable. I told Linda that there were two essential requirements that were absolute in all this: she had to be interested in the person, and she would never be made to do anything she didn't want to. She said she knew that, but I felt it was important to repeat it so that there was no misunderstanding or miscommunication between us. Finally, our chat concluded with her agreeing that all we had to do was just sit down and look through all the replies to for to then decide if someone interested her enough to arrange a meeting. At that I felt much better. I also knew we already had what appear to be several good candidates…

Other Women…for Me

Linda has expressed before how it turns her on to think of me fucking or getting sucked off by another woman while she watches. And naturally this is a long term goal for me. If we are in a threesome with one, or a foursome with another couple, then obviously this is the whole point if it all. So, as I was thinking more about our upcoming week alone and how we might be meeting some people and going to the clubs, a thought crossed my mind that I know I will have to bring up to my wife again: I need to know that if we find an attractive woman and bring her back home or go some place with her, that, assuming the woman's consent, I will get to fuck her. I mean, I can't help but recall that one time some five years earlier that we had a suitable woman naked in our living room and, although it was indeed just our first time and a preliminary trial, my wife rather unexpectedly felt some reservations and put conditions on what I could and couldn't do to her ---telling me she didn't want my dick in the woman's mouth or my tongue between her legs, etc. I understood her feelings at the time and had to comply, since it was our very first testing out of things and she was still nervous and timid, but now things are different. I need to know that this time given a similar scene out we are going to all have sex. Next time I am in a situation with some attractive nude woman who is there willing and waiting I will not hesitate to indulge and my wife is going to have to sit there and just enjoy it or else join in. Just a is have given my wife permission to be with any (woman or black guy) she wants as long as I am present, I expect her to return the favor equally and not try to invoke any veto over whom I choose.

So, days later I talked to Linda about this, and essentially told her what I expect and she said, "Okay." That was that. Kind of surprised me in a way, but then I figured it was due time she accepted these things.

Early June

At last we had the time and occasion to play on the webcam together. As usual we had a few tech problems and issues with the software compatibility, and so we gave it up again. We instead read some of her email response to Linda's ads. My wife selected a few guys to consider corresponding with or replying to later. She also made the request that we search for some women for her, or for both of us. After we looked through email and ads we ended up in bed. She immediately began doing some super lezzie ear sucking on me, really going to town like she never had before, just openly flicking her tongue on my lobe like it was a clitty and licking wetly along the side, sucking and slurping and moaning. I knew she was seriously practicing and fantasying about pussy eating and was well aware how hot it was making me. I quickly climaxed inside her while imagining how she would be doing it with some woman really sitting on her face.

We had sex many times during June. We even tried the web cam one more time. On one evening we were simply quietly engaged in the act, when Linda abruptly started talking about having a "big man's chocolate rod" and me watching her with him, getting hard for her, then doing her after him. It totally turned me on to have her initiate the subject during sex, to see it arouse her, to know she was aware of what it did to me, and especially for her to describe it in that way, as me being the voyeur then getting seconds. I asked her after if she meant it for real and she smiled and just said, "We'll see."

By the end of June we has viewed dozens of response results to her ads, and I was feeling a growing sense of excitement and anticipation at the potentials. We were still of course getting way too many bozos who were not black guys or were not dark but caramel, milk chocolate, cocoa, etc., as well as desperate old white guys. Sheesh. Very few of the ads could put a clear sentence together or even type words correctly. Plus most of them sent only a sorry photo of their cock.

July - Getting Clearer on Things

We had an early morning chat as our "play week" approached. I found myself growing increasingly anxious about the potential possibilities even as I tried hard not to become overly expecting of anything. There were still anxieties difficult to verbalize that I needed to get clear with Linda. There were still things we need to work out about what we are trying to achieve. Thinking about it all I concluded my belief is that once we break through the barrier of her at last having had sex with someone else everything will all be easier for any future adventures. This is why I want that for her more than any play fun thing for myself. Although I think she wants to be with another woman more (and I certainly want the same for both of us!), it is her being with another man that is the priority here.

So, as we again started to screen potential playmates, including other couples and single women, Linda reveals to me that in her life she has only found a tiny few men sexually attractive! The problem she tells me is that she never got close enough (or allowed herself to get close enough) to good candidates to feel that way with someone. She added that she is so satisfied with me that she doesn't feel all that interested in having anyone else. Lucky me. I asked if this was why she was being so picky with potential contacts we were making (I was trying to get her to have more realistic standards to widen the pool of candidates!). She then admitted that now that she is being put into the position where she is free to evaluate men solely on that factor, she is being different in how she is considering them. She also said that meeting someone in person rather than looking at photographs was the only real way she could decide because she did not respond to appearance alone the way I did or the way men in general did.

My wife then expressed the concern she had that she "did not want to feel that the only way I was going to be happy in our marriage was if she screwed someone else or I screwed someone else." I of course told her that it was simply a matter of me having needs and desires I wanted to fulfill and that I feel we have both wasted enough time in our lives that we should be making up for it now. I added that we have been unable to do this for the last five years because of family commitments. I added that it bothered me that she felt no sense of the "clock running out" as we are getting older and also had no sense of urgency in any of this because it was all simply not a priority for her in any way. She said it was true that it wasn't a priority. I asked her if this was all something she really was interested in and really wanted to pursue. She agreed it was. So, I said fine, that's why I am making the effort, and that we have to act to make it happen. We have to make the opportunity and when we have the opportunity we have to plan for it. We can't keep putting it off, I told her.

Then I used the analogy that to me, this kind of thing was like "going to Disney World", meaning that, people can always say, "Hey, let's go to Disney" and then you eventually get around to picking a time and making plans to go. It wasn't like saying, "Gosh, I always wanted to go to Tahiti…too bad I will probably never make it there." Going to Disney is no big deal. You just have to act on your desire. Going to Tahiti, on the other hand, is a fantasy most of the time and something unlikely to happen unless you are very serious and fortunate. A Disney trip is feasible once you have made preparations. It's all about the timing. She laughed at my analogy and understood my meaning. I concluded, "Let's go to Disney, dammit!" and she giggled.

One day on a drive of a few hours we had a cool chat together. Linda expressed that so far everything was cool about looking for potential men (and women) for her to meet. She also explained that she was also interested, perhaps more so sometimes, in seeing me with other women, watching my ass as I pounded them, and especially seeing me get sucked-off or deep throated, and seeing me ass fuck other women.

Our Long Hot Summer

Over the months of June to August, we had several good discussions and I think we reached a consensus on several important points of my patient quest at turning my sweet wife Linda into a "black cock slut." I made a point soon afterward of listing these points of understanding between us:

-she stated her realization that she is perhaps more voyeuristic than participatory (---an admission that has considerable ramifications which I have yet to fully consider)

-she expressed honest titillation and excitement at the thought of actually seeing me be with other women, and felt good at the prospect of having me get what she feels bad she cannot give (blowjobs).

-she expressed that for her "first time" with someone else she would prefer it be with another woman over a man (something I obviously intend to encourage as much as I can)

-she stated she cannot guarantee she will ever find any other man (black or otherwise) sexually attractive enough to go ahead do it, but is willing and happy to continue selecting and meeting with prospective candidates for consideration (which is all I can ask of her, really)

-she stated she cannot say before how she will feel or in what way she will react in any given situation with someone else until she is actually there, and that, although it all excites her she cannot say for sure ahead of time what she will want until the time comes. But, she assured me that if and when the time comes where she decides to play with someone else, she won't suddenly get cold feet or decide it's all wrong or something, but may perhaps just decide that she is comfortable with only watching the action rather than joining in (assuming it was a group thing with another woman or couple)

-she admitted that she is more secure and comfortable with the idea of all this now, far more so than the first time we had a playmate over many years earlier, but doesn't want us to get into the "swapping" or "swinging" thing as a "lifestyle"

-she requires that I agreed these reasonable ground rules are fair and also that I would not ever with meet alone with or talk privately with any woman without her being involved

-she agreed to meet in public for drinks with an interracial couple that has a bi-wife and to see where things go

I stated my top three choices and preferences for our sexual adventures as being: her with a black guy, both of us with another woman, and us with an interracial couple. She agreed that doing it (being with a black guy) for my pleasure is a factor, but her #3 choice was my #1. Her #1 was my #2. Guess we'll compromise.

So, following our agreement on these points, which are quite fair, my thoughts were that once we are naked sometime somewhere with another couple who is doing it, it will be no problem to maneuver Linda to a point where another hand or mouth is on her…and away we go…once that happens I have every confidence there will be no turning back. From that experience, one she has had one man or woman, we will have gotten past a barrier of sorts, a mentally and physically and emotionally inhibiting barrier that once passed will free her to then allow let her do practically anything in the future. At times the difficulty of all this I will say certainly makes me envious of those couples who so freely and mutually do what they want so easily together with other people. But, we all have must deal with our own unique situations in life, I suppose.

Reviewing More Replies

The DC response has been of very poor quality. Very few replies by black men from our area and none even fitting the most minimum of her requirements. We get a reply every other day though from Adult Friend Finder, got to recommend that site, but so many of the replies are just too fat, refuse show a face photo (and if they do it's too poor to make it out), or else they refuse to show a decent body photo (since they have a 4 inch dick and a huge belly). So, it's been hit and miss. Most of them also want to hook up immediately and simply ignore our profile's saying we need to meet in public first and move cautiously. We've actually had better responses tour ad from white couples and single women than we have form black men (!). On top of this, our free time is so constrained it's been difficult even to follow up and make plans. But, this week that we are alone we are planning on our very first meeting with other. We are set to meet an attractive interracial couple ("D&M") at a pub, and if the chemistry is right, then I expect something (!). Otherwise, our last chance for some adventure this special week alone is a visit to the swing club on Friday, but I doubt we will have any results there.

Doing the Nasty

During our week alone, we had our garage sparkling clean and had laid out some new floor mats. So the next thing we knew we were naked and running around. We did it right there doggie style while looking at ourselves in a wall mirror. At first it started out soft and sensual, just sexy and being natural. But soon, as Linda was watching herself, she started mentioning how I wanted to see her taken by some black stud…."his chocolate meat slamming" her and "his black ass cheeks pumping between" her "creamy white thighs," filling her "pink wet hole." I was delighted at my nasty little wife once more crossing the line.