INTERVIEW 8
JANET
No, my first experience with swinging was interracial. Only afterwards did we start
including white men. I enjoy both white and black men, but there's something really hot
and taboo about interracial sex that makes it really special.
My husband, Steve, had quite a few swinging experiences as a single guy before we met
and married. One of his girlfriends introduced him to it...FMF threesomes with other
women and straight, hetero MFM and gangbangs with other guys. He really enjoyed
watching as much as he did participating, and he especially got off on watching her with
well-hung black guys.
Well, telling me all these stories really got me curious. We discussed it for a long time,
and once I was ready, we pursued it with an ad right here on the Dark Cavern a couple
years ago. We met a GREAT guy who lived about 45 minutes away... good-looking, very
dark, and well-hung... and he also had about 6 years of swinging experience, which was
even better! Most of the guys who applied were out of shape, not well-hung at all, and
often extremely unattractive... so when we got this response, we were elated.
Anyway, we met socially and instantly hit it off. We had a VERY hot tryst in a local hotel
and the rest, as they say, is history! I knew right then and there that I was born for the
swinging life, and fucking other men right in front of Steve's loving eyes was wild beyond
belief!
1. Have you ever included a white guy in your sex games BEFORE you became
turned on to black?
3. What was the most exciting thing about this experience? (For the Woman.)
Definitely breaking a lot of taboos, I'd say. I come from a very conservative background so
fucking a hung black stud and my husband in a hotel room was just unreal!
Hmmm...I'd have to say there were two things equally exciting about it.
Speaking strictly from a voyeuristic standpoint, is the obvious visual aspect of the
contrasting skin colors was hot.
From from a relational standpoint, though, watching my beloved wife let go and dare to live
out one of her deepest, most taboo fantasies was just unbelievable. There are really no
words to describe it... it was truly a defining moment in our marriage. I'd had a quite a few
great swinging experiences when I was in my late teens and early twenties, both as a
single "extra man" and with girlfriends, but being happily married and swinging with your
soul mate is out of this world.
5. What are the things you enjoy doing most with black guys (and why?)
Well, I only enjoy it with black guys if they are VERY well-hung. So the size issue makes
me a little crazy and I get into "cock worship" when a guy has over 9 honest inches.
Other than that, I'm into the same exact things a with white guys... I'm just as kinky and
just as "wild".
I (Janet) enjoy being submissive, but I'm NOT into the humiliation scene at all. Ditto for
Steve... he enjoys dominating me, but he's not into either humiliating or being humiliated.
7. Do you prefer hubby to just watch or join in? (and why?)
I prefer him to join in, but when he's taking photos or videotaping then it's often hard for
him to focus on both things equally, so in those cases he just watches.
Like Janet, I also prefer joining in and being part of her pleasure. But being behind the
camera takes a lot of focus if you want good pics or a good video. So, I settle for watching
unless we're not doing a shoot.
9. Rough estimate - how many black guys have you been with (and how many
white?)
Since my first experience not quite 2 years ago, 10 black guys and 5 white. Those are
exact counts, BTW... we have a "little black book" that we record our experiences in.
There would be more except that we are VERY selective. Most of then guys who contact
us are out-of-shape slobs or arrogant fools. We don't meet sexually with anyone who we
wouldn't want to hang out with socially, too. It's the quality of the experiences that counts
for us, not the quantity.
I prefer unprotected sex, because I just LOVE creampies.... but we only do this with guys
we know and trust and who also have current HIV-negative test results. Otherwise,
condoms are a must with no exceptions.
Steve likes me have what I want, in all cases. He enjoys "spoiling me". Neither of us
pushes anything onto the other. So, he's into bareback sex, too, because he loves the
way I flip out when I get my pussy filled with sperm, especially from more than one man at
once. But again, that's only when we know and trust the guys and they have a current
HIV-negative test results to show.
When it comes to what I will or won't do, whether a guy is black or white or any other race
isn't the issue. I do what I enjoy with any man, and don't do what I don't enjoy with any
man.
13. Does hubby like clean up duties? If so, on you only or the lovers too?
God, no! That scene makes us both feel nauseous just thinking about it. Steve's not bi in
the slightest. Nor is he one of these "wimp husbands" and into being degraded. In fact,
he's good-looking, trim and fit enough that he intimidates many of the guys who contact
us. I think that's even more true because he's not a hyper-macho "tough guy" at all... he's
very friendly and outgoing. On top of that, he's got a well-above-average size cock and can
out-fuck 90% of the guys we've met. So men who are on ego trips or think that they're
giving me something I can't get at home are sadly mistaken! It's just great, kinky sex
that we're into, none of the heavy psychological stuff. More like an unconventional version
of good, clean fun.. pure animal LUST! :)