One of our friends is black, but I know she would be super scared to be with him. She is just really nervous around him. We have been reading and some of the things she reads also make her nervous. How they like getting rough, especially with white women. How they will rarely if ever wear a condom. She's also not totally healed from having our first child yet.

I wish it were easy to get them into bed together but she has been super sensitive about going further with him.