My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. The first night we met, we had sex. I could sense that something was not right. On our next date, she told me that she had to be honest with me, and that in college (only 2 years before); she had had sex with many black guys. She had lived in black dorm and had basically fucked her way through four years- though she maintained a grade "A" average. I knew that she was waiting to see my reaction. I told her right away, that not only did it not bother me, but also I would like to hear all about her stories. After 26 years of being together, I still get hard when she tells me a "college story". Readers of Dark Cavern will remember that I started writing "The Diary of D" some time ago and I mean to complete it. However our present lifestyle has reached a new stage, and I think that for the moment, today's activities would be more appealing to readers.

Though we enjoy the same practices as most couples with Dominant Wives and cuckold husbands - getting Her ready, watching, jerking off, cleaning up and hearing about her adventures, I think we have taken it a step further….

"D" now lives the life of a single Woman. She enjoys a very active sex and dating life. I serve as Her "Cuckold Personal Secretary". "D" spends a good deal of time on the computer dealing with business, so when it comes to Her sex life, She leaves the details to me. I find Her new lovers on various websites, including of course Dark Cavern. In Her name I write letters to potential lovers and then let Her know about suitable candidates. Once She has found a serious candidate, She takes over and I step out of the picture. She does not enjoying "Iming" too much on AOL. If one comes in while I am on-line, I tell Her. If She chooses to chat with him, I leave the room.

We go through periods of time when "D" has more time than at others for Her sex life. So there may be times when She is relatively inactive. But then there are times of intensive sex with multiple partners.

During these more leisure periods "D" enjoys "entertaining" about 3 men a week. These may include three different guys or maybe having one guy stay with us for three days. She currently has Her sights set finding on a single guy or two with whom She can spend an occasional weekend. Many of Her lovers are married, but She does enjoy singles as well.

To me, the most humiliating things are when She goes on a "date" with a guy. This may involve drinks, dinner, and dancing and then of course mad lovemaking. I never know if I will be allowed to witness Her with a guy. Sometimes She has me greet a lover, serve them drinks and then leave the room. Other times I am allowed to watch and jerk off.

However we have been discussing having me assume a more submissive role in front of Her lovers. One of Her favorite things is to tongue a black lover's ass. I am rarely allowed to watch. However on one occasion, She had me sit outside the bedroom after announcing in front of him "I am going to lick his asshole now". I sat outside for about 15 minutes while I heard her slurping and him groaning, followed by him cumming. She then announced, "Come in here!" She had left the bed and in front of him, She stuck Her tongue in my mouth for a long French kiss. My humiliation was complete.

The next step is for me to serve one of Her black lovers as a submissive. Though I have had little experience in bi-sexuality - She has told me that I will be sucking cock regularly and even more.

As She becomes more active now, I will be spending more time on the computer assisting Her in finding enough lovers to keep Her "Stable" filled. She likes to have about 1- 20 guys at any time that call on Her, or that She contacts. Keeping track of all of these guys is not easy, and that's how I spend my time.

She is looking forward to "dating" a guy or two that She can attend black sexing parties with. My role in this would be to perhaps drive them to the party and pick them up.

We would very much like to hear from others who enjoy the cuckold lifestyle. We enjoy sharing experiences and we also like to hear from black men who enjoy "cucking" a husband. I will be writing more on a regular basis.