Don't shoot the messenger!
Location: Green Leaf's Bar & Grill, Toronto Attendees: Raekwon 29, black male swinging for 4 years, Maurice 33, swinging for 7 years, Jason 35, swinging for 2 years, Tyler 26, black male swinging for 6 months. Me, Shadow fucking more chicks than Bill Clinton for 10 years.
Communication!
HOLY shit you would think that may couples would realize that this is the #1 key to having a pleasant, yet successful black cock swinging experience. Or any experience for that matter. "Maurice met a hot, young couple off an interracial swingers board, exchanged emails, spoke to them on the phone and confirmed a time and date to hookup for a evening of clean adult fun". Sounds good on paper right? Once Maurice met up with the couple as specified, the evening was beginning to get hot and heavy. Until. The husband leaves the room and re-enters with a video camera and tells him that it has always been his fantasy to TAPE a black man fucking his wife! This was not agreed upon in the conversations and once Maurice begins to question where the tape would be seen, he is asked to leave the hotel room immediately!
Sounds crazy right? "I was so fucking embarrassed, yet aroused I didn't know what to do responded Maurice"! My suggestion to any couple(s) is to please outline everything up front, taping, or otherwise. This will eliminate any lawsuits and legal actions. Yes black men with hard cocks can afford lawyers too. Or better yet, you NEVER know how a (black male) may react if this is not AGREED upon upfront. Think OJ Simpson.
Black Cock Speed Dial!
This is probably the #1 reason why I never get down with every swinging couple that emails me. In the words of Jason, "Black guys have feelings too"! There seems to be a large number of couples who only interact with black male swingers when there is a **special party or that time of the month when the white wife wants black cock. "Jason calls it black cock speed dial". We all know that swinging is an adult lifestyle, but it would be nice to receive a phone call or email from a couple just to see how a (black) person is doing. "Jason met this nice white couple and the sex was great, but he would only hear from them on the 15th of the month". Hey, I know everyone is busy these days but you have to realize some black men are very sensitive to this issue. Many won't tell YOU that it bothers them to only hear from you on the 15th of the month. "It makes me feel like I'm only good for fucking, like I'm a beast or some shit responded Jason". I know we may be from different walks in life but a simple five minute hello can go a long way.
Try it sometimes.
Profit Sharing
This last segment goes out to the couples who are selling videos of their swinging lifestyle. Oh my god this shit is fucking crazy, after 5 rum and cokes I can't believe the shit some of these couples are doing online. It seems that a certain couple residing in North Canada who run their own hardcore interracial website is making a trail of black cock **enemies from their bad swinging practices. I guess they seem to think that these black men are going to stand around and do nothing like the Canadians did on the Iraq War. But that's another story. If you are taping your encounters and selling them for a **profit, why not try to keep your black cock **talent happy by offering them a piece of the pie?
At this point, don't fool yourself by thinking its just an swinging experience. There are several good advantages of offering your black cock talent profit sharing incentives. 1) You will probably get a better **fucking experience on tape, if they KNOW they are going to receive monies in the near future. 2) Your wife will love every minute of production. You won't have to beg her to get ready for that black time of the month again. 3) Reduce chance of lawsuit. 4) Reduce chance of hotel room jacking. 5) Everyone is happy and it's a win/win situation. Hey this is just a suggestion, this leads back to my number one topic. Communication. After spending $90 at the bar and hanging out with my fellow brothers I realize that more black men want to get into interracial swinging but many of the following topics I have spoken about are leaving them a little leery.
Have fun. Shadow
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