Many of the Emails came from couples who share a lifestyle such as ours. Some wrote to say they loved our stories and had enjoyed some fun with Blacks themselves. Well over half were from men who all asked the same question... "How can I get my partner to do what you have been doing?" These guys seem desperate to see their wife or girlfriend have sex with another man. Well I surely don’t have the correct and fool proof answer to that one, but I can share what works for us and if it helps, I’m pleased and if it doesn’t, then no harm done.
So you want to see your partner Fuck and Suck a Black Cock? This is a common fantasy and one shared by just about every man we’ve been with.
Your first step is to be really sure that this is what you want. Sometimes in the heat of a good masturbation session we conjure up all sorts of fantasies for the moment, then once the feeling has passed, we come back down into the real world and into our own sense of right and wrong.
The second step is to decide if you can handle it? You are going to see your partner, not only in the arms of another man, but sucking on a big Black Dick and watching that Cock entering her pussy while she begs for more. In all probability she may respond to the guy in a way you’ve never seen before when she was having sex with YOU. I caution you here and now, if you have an ounce of jealousy in your nature, don’t do it. You will live to regret it. If you have ever shown a jealous streak, she will remember it, and when you suggest she fuck another man for your watching pleasure, the red flag will go up and her first thought will be of entrapment. "This guy is setting me up to be called a Nigger Loving Whore next time we have a name calling argument. At that point she will call you an Asshole for talking her into it in the first place. Know something? She will be right. We once knew a couple who got along really well except for some jealousy. One argument led to another and when the divorce wars started, the guy did something to humiliate her. He started passing around the polaroids he had made years before of her in the nude and with some of her sucking his Cock. This jerk mailed them to her coworkers, her family, her Minister and the neighbors. What she had done in an act of love came back to haunt her. The divorce was messy to say the least, but she did recover well, while the Asshole of a husband found himself scorned by one and all and eventually had to leave town.
I mention this story to emphasize the need for absolute TRUST. It even happened to Dr. Laura. What she did in an act of love and devotion came back to haunt her from a guy that was not to be trusted in the first place. Now her nude pictures are all over the Internet and the guy she trusted turned out to be a world class Chicken Shit.
You must first establish an honest and enduring relationship. If she doesn’t trust you one hundred percent, forget it.
Make her feel like the most erotic woman in the world and mean it. Make her believe that your desire to see her with another man is one of seeing her made happy while you watch and enjoy the moment with her. Do this when she is in a sexy mood. Most men bring up such a subject while having sex. Go slow, give her time to build some fantasies of her own. Tell her how sexy and how beautiful she is and how much you’d enjoy seeing her with another man. [Maybe your fantasy involves seeing her with another woman?] The approach is the same. We ladies do have fantasies, maybe not as vivid as you men, but we do have them.
Also keep in mind that, if she wanted a strange Cock to play with, she wouldn’t need YOU to find it for her. Who knows, she may have been thinking along the same lines as you are. Remember, you do not own her Pussy nor her Mouth. These two orifices are her property, not yours.
The bottom line is TRUST. In thirty years of swinging with other couples, this is the one thing that they all have in common. Without honesty between the two of you, it won’t work.
Again I say, what works for us and our friends may not work for anyone else, but if you are stuck on square one, it is worth a try.
I CAN tell you this. The end result is worth the effort. Our most enjoyable sex scenes have involved me with another man, Black or White, with Charles watching our every move and cheering me on. So get busy guys. Convince the little lady that she is your world and doing this favor for you will only make the bond stronger. Above all, be HONEST and establish TRUST. It worked for us.
C & B