Chapter One - What Is A Cuckold?
Chapter Two - What Cuckolds Want
Chapter Three - What Cuckolding Wives Want
Chapter Four - The Tall Dark Stranger Syndrome
Chapter Five - Strict Wives-More than A Dose of Humiliation
Chapter Six - Orgasm Denial and Chastity
Chapter Seven - Sissification
Chapter Eight - What Bulls (Lovers, Studs, Masters, Real Men) Want
Chapter Nine - Is Bigger Better?
Chapter Ten - Is More Merrier?
Chapter Eleven - Is Black Sweeter?
Chapter Twelve - Having Lover's Baby
Chapter Thirteen - Love and Jealousy
Chapter Fourteen - There's No Turning Back

Chapter 2

What Cuckolds Want

"It is simply a thrill without compare to watch your wife getting fucked by Her Lover." (Happy cuckold).

Most cuckolds are kind and considerate husbands and say they love their wives and want them to be sexually satisfied "more than anything else in the world." One cuckold hubby said "it is a real release of pressure to know that my wife is getting sexually satisfied by Her Lover in a way that I couldn't do it." Another said he wanted nothing more than his sexy wife "to be fucked properly."

Though the wife's sexual satisfaction is paramount, most cuckold hubbies want to get something out of it too. If there was one thing that emerged over and over in surveys and discussions, it was how cuckolds want to participate, if sometimes only indirectly, in their wives' hot liaisons with Her Lover(s). Watching, listening, licking, sucking, and sometimes participating jointly turn many on, even if it is only "sloppy seconds" or a taste of "cream pie". Even in the extreme, if they stay home cleaning the kitchen floor with a scouring brush in their mouth while wearing frilly hot pink panties while their wives are getting their brains fucked out by large-cocked Lovers, they often want to at least hear about their wife's exploits when She returns. This doesn't always involve sexual activity. As one cuckold said, "I need sexual attention, not necessarily sexual activity." Without participation at some level, hubbies may feel it is less like a cuckold lifestyle and more like cheating. Wives would be smart to pay attention to cuckold hubby's needs also, perhaps telling by his erection or his ardor to identify what he enjoys the most.

Even in those cases where the wife sees Her Lover alone, hubby can still participate by making his wife irresistible by buying Her a sexy new outfit and getting Her ready for a romantic night out. Some of the things he might help do for Her include: bathing and dressing, freshening up Her makeup and nail polish, shaving Her legs and pussy smooth for Her Lover, applying bright red or pink lipstick and shiny lip gloss, fluffing and combing Her hair, massaging Her, licking Her pussy into a slutty state of arousal, getting a room for them if Her Lover is not bringing Her home, driving Her to meet Her Lover, etc. She may let hubby participate by calling hubby while Her Lover is ravishing Her and telling him what they are doing and even letting him listen in. At the very least, he may get to orally service Her later and hear about Her Lover's sexual prowess (even superiority) and Her intense pleasure with him. Many men are basically voyeurs and they love seeing, listening, or even just hearing about a sexually charged woman in the throes of sexual ecstasy. As some cuckolds put it, "There is nothing more exciting than a woman in ecstasy with Her Lover," and "She makes sounds with him that I never hear when She is with me."

Part of that voyeurism is having their wives dress provocatively and be a bit of an exhibitionist. It turns them on when their sexy wife teases and flirts with them and other men and openly flaunts Her sexuality while dressed in "slut" attire like short minis, transparent or no panties, "fuck me" high heels, thigh-highs, and see-through tops that give Her Lovers easy access. As will be discussed in a future installment on jealousy, flirting like this is a very natural activity for women. Studies show that they are more than twice as likely to do it than men. Women have used it for millennia to show their high desirability as mates and to increase their husband's commitment to the relationship.

Many cuckold hubbies also love seeing their wives turned on by a better or more endowed aggressive Lover. One hubby with a small 4" cock said that his wife got so aroused She was "like a faucet" with Her well-endowed 10" Black Lover and that he "brings Her to multiple orgasms every time." Another said, "She gets nastier with a big cock, rolls Her eyes back in Her head, and screams for more when She cums."

Some cuckolds are naturally submissive and like being sexually denied or controlled by a dominant or slightly dominate wife. One cuckold said, "Being locked up in chastity for a week at a time heightens my sexual desires to a level I can't describe." If the poll statistics on chastity are right, nearly 20% of cuckolds are chastised. A few wives may allow intercourse but make their hubby wear a condom while giving the privilege of cumming inside them exclusively to Her Lover. Some cuckold hubbies may simply be denied intercourse altogether. One cuckold said that he is "relegated to licking my wife's pussy and jerking off." Others are not even allowed to masturbate without their wife's permission. As will be discussed later, this has the effect of making them very attentive and doting husbands.

Some also enjoy being subservient to both the wife and Her Lover and some like it when their wife is dominant toward him and submissive to Her Lover-even to the point of becoming a "slut" for Her Lover. Taken to the extreme and having someone be in total control of his wife sexually can be a real turn-on for some cuckolds. One cuckold said he was extremely excited by his wife's Bull directing Her to wear a slutty transparent outfit while entertaining the Bull's friends at a football watching party. He said, "I love it when my wife becomes a total slut to another man."

In fact, having the wife become totally addicted to "big Black cock" is a powerful fantasy for many white cuckolds. Some even go out of their way to have their wife seduced and turned into a "100% Black cock slut" who "never goes back." Even if She is not into this as much as Her kinky hubby, the wife may fuel his fantasy by pretending to be.

Other things that turn many cuckolds on are little humiliations like comments about his dick size or sexual inadequacy compared to Her Lover, or having to do things like getting the extra large condoms for Her Lover, chauffeuring with his wife and Her Lover in the back seat, getting them a hotel room, washing Her Lover's car, fixing dinner for them or going out for pizza and beer while his wife is "taken to heaven" by Her Lover. A dose of humiliation toward the cuckold hubby seems to be a hallmark of the cuckold lifestyle.

This sometimes includes public exposure of his cuckold status. For example, watching his wife dance and flirt unmercifully in front of him at a bar, or having Her introduce Her Lover to his co-workers as Her "very special friend" at an office party and spending the entire evening on Her Lover's arm. One cuckold hubby was extremely turned on by the thought that his friends from work would find out about his cuckold status and realize that they could fuck his wife too, saying, "If that happens, there would be nothing I could do about it."

Perhaps though, one of the strongest humiliations for some cuckolds is being called a sissy-even being made to dress like one or being feminized. Most cuckolds are not Gay, or even bi-sexual, but there are some who enjoy the humiliation of being forced into a bisexual act with their wife's Lover. In addition to being a delicious humiliation for them, it seems to serve a practical purpose too. As one cuckolding wife put it, "When my Lover sees my husband in frilly petticoats, makeup, and heels, and when I tell him to suck my Lover's cock hard and he does it like the sissy he is, then my Lover is no longer concerned about an irate husband. In fact it excites him even more and I get better sex from it!" It also gives a cuckold a good excuse to not "act like a man" and protest the fucking of his wife. After all, he IS a sissy while dressed like one, not a "real" man.

A few very dominant wives may even turn their cuckold hubbies into a sissy maid doing all the household chores. Not just the traditional male ones of taking out the trash or mowing the lawn, but cooking, sewing, washing dishes, dusting, mopping, vacuuming, making the bed, doing the laundry, etc. (Though there are some wives who draw the line at laundry since they believe that when it comes to laundry "men just don't get it"). One formerly macho hubby turned into a sissy maid by his dominant wife said that he would have "bet a million dollars" beforehand that he would not have liked being a sissy. Now he is a perfectly trained sissy maid and says he is very proud of it and gets a lot of pleasure from it that he didn't expect, even taking pride in how well he can suck the cock of his wife's Lover for their enjoyment!

Clean-up is Number One

But there is nothing more exciting to a cuckold than a well-fucked pussy full of cum-especially if that pussy belongs to his wife! Perhaps it's evidence of the dominance and power of the Lover and the cuckold's total subservience to his wife, but eating "cream pies" and licking the wife's pussy and Lover's cock clean came out on top again and again in surveys and discussions. Maybe that's why many cuckolds are turned on by the thought of their wife being fucked by an aggressive dominant Lover who rides Her "bareback" to multiple orgasms. Even if the cuckold hubby is inadequate with a tiny ineffective cock, he can still provide a desirable service to his wife and Her Lover with a passionate tongue. Besides that, it's an excellent way to participate and not get left out.

If clean up is number one, then "sloppy seconds" is probably a close number two. One cuckold hubby said he loves "the silky smooth feel of my wife's cum filled pussy after Her Lover has had his way with Her. " He said that he gets so excited by it that even though there is little friction it only takes him a minute or two to add his cum to the mix. This is consistent with the theory of sperm competition in that lesser or subordinate males-from a sexual point of view-had to look over their shoulder more and be quick about depositing their sperm before being displaced by a more dominant male. As a result, some of these quick cummers are our ancestors.

From the ads:

Here are some edited ad excerpts from cuckold hubbies looking for Lovers for their wives:

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From the polls:

CUCKOLDS: WHY DO YOU ENJOY YOUR WIFE TAKING A LOVER?

In this poll the number one reason cucks enjoy their wife taking a Lover is Her knowing that they get horny and turned on seeing Her with Her Lover. For most, it is also "joint fun," with Her knowing that Her cuck enjoys it too. Close behind for many is the fun that the two of them have after Her Lover is gone. Many cucks said that "seeing Her enjoy a skilful Lover" is reason enough, while others like it for the teasing they get about Her getting a "decent fuck". A smaller number would like Her to get rid of Her frustration with his "pathetic" performance.

CUCKOLDS: WHAT EXCITES YOU MOST ABOUT WATCHING ANOTHER MAN DO TO YOUR WIFE?

As might be expected, while watching his wife and Her Lover, excitement for cuckolds builds in about the same order as the seduction of his wife proceeds, from touching, to kissing, to fucking. Fucking was by far the most exciting by over 2 to 1. Here is the order from lowest excitement to highest:

1. Touching: Tender touching, teasing, and caressing between Her and Her Lover to get things going.
2. Kissing: Passionate kissing and embracing including long, wet, soulful, full mouth and tongue French kisses heats things up.
3. Fingering: Her Lover slowly, but surely, rubs and penetrates Her with 1, 2, or more fingers to bring Her to a wet slutty state of arousal and a slow boil.
4. Stripping: Her Lover removes-maybe even forcibly tears off-Her panties, skirt, top, and bra. Sometimes Her thigh-high hose and "fuck-me" high-heels are kept on as the pot begins to boil.
5. Fucking: Finally, the pot boils over and over with vigorous and passionate uninhibited fucking and moaning as if the cuckold hubby isn't even there. This is the most exciting thing for cuckolds by 2 to 1.

CUCKOLDS: ARE YOU DENIED SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH YOUR WIFE?

A significant number (38%) of those currently being cuckolded said they were not allowed to EVER have sexual intercourse with their wife. Many of these cucks are no doubt relegated-if they are lucky-to licking their wife (and maybe their wife's Lover(s) too) clean after sex with Her Lover(s). However, most cucks (62%) said they were allowed to have SOME sexual intercourse with their wife. Perhaps they are allowed to share their wives jointly with their Lover(s) or are permitted "sloppy seconds" afterwards. Or, perhaps some are so turned on by their wife taking a Lover that they fuck with an intense passion that their wife loves. For others, it may just be a mercy fuck that their wife permits them once in awhile to remind them what they are missing. They may or may not be allowed to cum, depending on the wife's mood.

CUCKOLDS: DO YOU ENJOY DRESSING IN LINGERIE WHILE SERVING YOUR WIFE AND HER LOVER?

Confirming their sometimes-sissy role, most cucks (63%) in this poll said they either love dressing in lingerie (35%) or are accepting of it (28%). A few (16%) said they do it because their wife really loves it. Some cucks (22%) said they hate dressing in lingerie.

CUCKOLDS: DOES YOUR WIFE INVITE HER LOVER HOME?

An overwhelming number (92%) of cuckolds said yes, their wife does invite Her Lover home. The most popular activity (29%) was eating Her out afterwards. Perhaps not surprisingly, a relatively popular activity (19%) was for the cuckold to walk around in girl's clothing while pleasuring them both.

CUCKOLDS: WHERE ON YOUR WIFE DO YOU PREFER TO LICK UP HER LOVER'S CUM?

Most (by over 2 to 1) said they prefer to clean the Bull's cum from their wife's pussy, with many saying they liked doing it after they mixed their cum with his (sperm competition?) Many said they liked cleaning it from Her mouth after She has sucked Her Lover to completion. Some said they would clean it from anywhere, including Her ass, belly, or face and from anywhere on Her Lover's body as well.

CUCKOLDS: IF YOU HAD TO CHOOSE ONLY ONE THING, WHICH WOULD IT BE?

If cucks could choose only one thing, the top choice (41%) would be "cleaning Her" after sex with Her Lover. Next, and also scoring high (31%) is "watching Her Lover fuck Her." Not as high, but still significant (20%) is "sucking off Her Lover." The last item chosen by a few (8%) is "fucking your wife."

CUCKOLDS: WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO PROVE YOUR SUBSERVIENCE?

The number one best way by 2 to 1 (38%) for a cuckold to prove his subservience was eating Her Lover's cum from Her pussy with sucking Her Lover's "throbbing" cock at a respectable number two (15%). Many (24%) felt, however, that "all of the above" were best, which included such things in addition to these as: dressing like a woman, being denied orgasms, being spanked by Her or Her Lover, eating Her Lover's cum from Her asshole, licking Her Lover's balls, rimming Her Lover while he fucks Her, letting Her Lover piss on him (and even swallowing it) and other unmentionables.

CUCKOLDS: WOULD YOU EAT YOUR WIFE'S PUSSY AFTER ANOTHER MAN HAS CUM IN IT?

The vast majority (77%) said yes, they would eat their wife's cum-filled pussy.

CUCKOLDS: DO YOU LIKE SLOPPY SECONDS?

As might be expected in a poll about sloppy seconds, full sloppy seconds was preferred (41%) to licking Her cream pie (32%) or watching Her get a cream pie (28%).

CUCKOLDS: WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE TYPE OF SEX?

Most cuckolds prefer giving oral sex (licking up Lover's cum or licking Her to a slutty state of arousal to get Her ready), while many also enjoy receiving it. Many cuckolds, however, tend to be heterosexual and also like sexual intercourse (sloppy seconds?) with a slight preference for group sex over 1-on-1. Some like anal sex (giving or receiving) and masturbation (self, mutual, giving or receiving).

CUCKOLDS: WHAT DOES YOUR WIFE DO WHEN SHE COMES HOME FROM A DATE?

The most popular were: "She tells me all the sticky details," (23%) and "I add some cum," (23%), and "She wakes me up with desert while She's still dressed" (16%). Some (10%) said "She tells me nothing, I only get to please Her," or "She teases me until I just can't stand it" (7%), or "I cum where and when She tells me. (7%).

CUCKOLDS: ARE YOU MADE TO SEXUALLY SERVE YOUR WIFE'S BULLS?

Most cucks (68%) who answered this question said yes, they do provide sexual service for their wife's Lover(s). This might include such things as sucking their cocks to get them ready, licking their cocks and balls clean afterwards, or perhaps licking their balls and ass while they are fucking the cuckold's wife. A few may even find themselves being fucked by the wife's Lover(s).

CUCKOLDS: WHAT WOULD YOU BE WILLING TO DO TO PERSUADE HER TO CUCKOLD YOU?

Here are the top 10 things that cuckolds would do:

1. Being made to watch and listen to Her suck and fuck Her Lover(s)
2. Licking Her in front of Her Lover(s) to get Her ready for sex
3. Licking Her Lover's cum from Her after their sex
4. Helping dress Her and prepare Her for Her dates/Lover(s)
5. Having Her go on dates while he waits at home
6. Sucking Her Lover's cock to get him ready for Her
7. Licking Her Lover's cock clean after their sex
8. Having Her go on holiday/vacation with Her Lover
9. Receiving strap-on sex from his wife in private or from his wife in front of Her Lover
10. Having Her Lover(s) as lodger(s)/houseguest(s)

Next time: "What Cuckolding Wives Want"

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